Being away from home doesn’t mean you cannot still make good decisions with food, that you cannot watch your weight, keep weight off, or even diet and lose weight! This weekend I was away from home (again) at a conference. I’ve recently become an associate member of the Professional Speakers Association as I’m building up my speaking profile talking about weight, diets and obesity, food, body image and staying positive when life is, bluntly, challenging.
The conference was in a hotel but despite being away for 2 nights and 3 days I didn’t leave any of my food to chance. That’s not to say I didn’t partake of some of the food on offer; just that I was very deliberate about it and it was on my terms.
Of course, never leaving food to chance takes some planning. I’d been really busy this week I didn’t have much time. If you are organised it doesn’t have to be a massive job and I still managed to make a fat burning, low GI, sugar/fat free meal. On Thursday night I quickly roasted some veg in balsamic vinegar and fry light, soaked some oil free sundried tomatoes and put on a pan of whole-wheat pasta at the same as cooking my evening meal. Before I went to bed I mixed it all together, added some cherry toms, fat free cottage cheese and some fresh black pepper. This meal will easily last for 48 hours even outside a fridge. I put it in an old tub I’d saved and left in the fridge ready to pick up the next morning.
Early the next morning all I had to do was pick up the some muesli and get the pasta and some tubs of fat free yogurt from the fridge, put in some cool bags and I was ready to go. On the way down to the conference I stopped at a motorway services M&S and bought my lunch for both days and a bottle of skimmed milk. With very little trouble I now had 3 of my meals.
I was staying in a budget hotel so I didn’t have a fridge in my room. For once I went by car. It’s autumn so my car boot doubled up as a fridge! If the weather had been warmer I would have asked the hotel to let me use one of their main fridges. I’ve never been turned down.
I just took the food out of my ‘fridge’ as needed. Good job I’d been organised. On the first night there was a buffet and all the food was pretty calorific. The buffet lunch on Saturday had not one single item of food which was fat burning, wholefood or good to eat if you are watching your weight. Even the salads were covered in mayo or loads of oil. I didn’t mind; I was too busy enjoying the salads I’d bought at M&S. My resolve was strong – until the pudding on Friday night when some Pecan and toffee cheesecakes were bought out! I have to say I just could not say no – it went down pretty nicely I can tell you. But I was the one making that choice.
Choosing which meal I would eat ….
All that was left was my evening meal on Saturday, a gala dinner. I knew this was going to be the big occasion of the weekend so I had decided in advance I would eat the meal. I did my usual rouse – I told them I am vegan (I am not, but that way I avoid food which is rich is cream and cheese). I was given a really lovely sweet potato and chickpea curry. Bit too much fat for me but it was really tasty. The only downside of the vegan ‘lie’ is when the pudding comes and you are given fruit salad. Luckily they got confused and I got given a lovely apple frangipani tart. Mmmmmm. You see – it was all on my terms. And I didn’t feel bad, I just enjoyed every mouthful.
When you eat high calorie food you need to be the one who choses
I hadn’t eaten high calorie food I didn’t want to eat because it was all that was there. I had mainly chosen food I wanted to eat and which was fat burning and low fat/sugar. But I enjoyed puddings and other food I had chosen to eat.
When keeping weight off its so so important to remember that you can still be in control of your food and make good food choices even when you are away from home. Be determined that when you do eat high calorie food it will be your decision, not someone else’s, and the food will be food you REALLY WANT TO EAT!
And when you do, enjoy every mouth full.
In a future blog I’ll be sharing a new lovely autumn pudding that I’ve been working on. A fat free, sugar free and flour free cakey pudding……….